I LOVE Muay Thai and I love being a STUDENT in the art. One of the biggest most life impacting learnings in studying martial arts has not been a punch or kick...it has been RESPECT. In my time training I have discovered the importance of respect for myself, respect for others, and most importantly respect for my TEACHERS. Without this understanding it makes it difficult to learn and train properly and effectively.
Often students come to martial arts for the physical benefits, however it is the benefits to the mind and spirit that will bring long term physical and overall well-being. It is important to focus on these aspects and the rest will fall in place. If there is too much focus on the physical then the mind will grow weak and be unable to support the body which will then break down much more quickly. Strong mind, strong spirit, strong body.
Joining a camp or martial arts school is not like joining a gym or health club. Martial arts training is steeped in ancient traditions designed to benefit mind, body and spirit. Martial arts are of military roots and this is why there are common formalities that foster a respectful and dutiful atmosphere. Martial arts training support you to be calm, control your behavior and respond to the challenges of life in a relaxed manner. It is here that you can look in the mirror and learn about yourself. Your training should be focused on competing with yourself and not other students and especially not your instructor. Always listen to your Kru or instructor or coach as they know how to get the best out of you, they see you bigger than you see yourself so it is important to follow their direction and instruction respectfully and politely. Passing on knowledge of the art and it's traditions is considered something very serious and sacred. The camp or dojo is like a family and the instructor is considered the head of the family. Do not get insulted if your instructor corrects you or speaks in a harsh tone of voice. It is better to be corrected by your instructor than to hear sweet and pleasing words in order to keep you happy but that doesn't get your training or technique to grow and improve. This is not martial arts. It is the instructor’s job to demand the most from you. When an instructor corrects you, gives you directions or has you work with another student, do not argue or get offended. The student should not take it personally. The best way to respond is to control your personal feelings and concentrate on improving your technique and self discipline. Students who apply themselves will later have revelations regarding the teachers actions which will help lead them to a greater understanding of martial arts and life.
